Queston?
Are you wondering why my updates have been less frequent these day..??? To tell you the truth.. i’m still abit stressed and upset that i have to move my blog and the events leading to this migration.
My question is .. should i move my blog to another place.. like typepad..?? or somewhere else.. where it is safer.. and those that i don’t want them to read or find me .. not find me..??
Any suggestions..??? please..??
What good is a blog.. when you cannot let out your inner most feelings.. and honest feelings about things right..??
PS :- I beg of all of you who has my address to my blog .. to please keep it to yourself.. unless you know for sure. .they are not from the country i am living in. And if you do give out my address with caution .. to please ask whoever not to link me ever. Thank you very much.
My question is .. should i move my blog to another place.. like typepad..?? or somewhere else.. where it is safer.. and those that i don’t want them to read or find me .. not find me..??
Any suggestions..??? please..??
What good is a blog.. when you cannot let out your inner most feelings.. and honest feelings about things right..??
PS :- I beg of all of you who has my address to my blog .. to please keep it to yourself.. unless you know for sure. .they are not from the country i am living in. And if you do give out my address with caution .. to please ask whoever not to link me ever. Thank you very much.



June 27th, 2005 at 12:08 pm
sound so serious
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if you don’t want ppl to find you (you mean google?), you have to change your name as well beside your blog title,otherwise if they type in “mrs.T” guess they still can find you leh.
June 27th, 2005 at 12:49 pm
Hi Yipan, yes, i guess we have to stop calling you by your old screen name too, so the google searchers can’t find you.
Don’t let these negative people get you down, just write as honestly as you have been. That is why you have gained the readers you already have, after all. You can’t please everyone, and if people don’t like what they read, then they should go elsewhere.
hugs to you and chloe!
June 27th, 2005 at 2:56 pm
Hey.. Twinsmom,
Not that serious actually .. just a wee bit disappointed with my neighbours and the person who happened to inform them about my blog causing a great deal of unwanted hoo-haas..! I’ve taken your advice about chnaging the name as well. thanks for your input.
Hey .. Jmom,
Thanks for your advice.. i really appreciate it.. !
Unfortunately, it is not so easy .. as asking them to leave an not return to my blog. These ppl leave here in my communicty. .and chance upon my blog. .and used it against me. And the last straw was using my neighbours to go up against me.. just because of something so so.. insignificant..!!! If you hear my story.. you would prolly think my neighbours are the silliest mountain tortoise on earth.. hahah!!
June 27th, 2005 at 3:00 pm
sorry to hear about the stress u’re feeling about this blog migration. I guess can try changing the screen name and also avoid using yr last name. Although I tried googling based on these and couldn’t find anything. So I also dunno how those ppl find u… can u find out somehow?
Or u can switch to something that allows u to have certain posts password protected. That way u can still post anything u want but only the people u give the password to can read the password protected posts. I think Typepad has that function? but must pay… =(
June 27th, 2005 at 3:05 pm
hi, mrs T, i cannot comment on this much as i don’t know what kind of trouble these people have been causing you.
but i don’t think that you can reveal all your inner most thoughts on a blog site, which is public at any rate. you can reveal some aspects of them. still you need to conceal your physical location and other specifics.
over the web site, the most you could give is your email address unless you want to advitising for profit. you can give your mailing address if you trust some people and send them in an email.
i remember we were invited to a friend’s new blended family. he just got divorced from his wife, whom happens to be our friend as well. so i would keep this out of my blog. i have an automatic censoring mechinism. certain things i just don’t write in order to avoid trouble of any kind…
happy blogging!
min
June 27th, 2005 at 7:36 pm
Oh dear, sounds like you are being stalked! Maybe u should change your blog name and also the references that you normally use in your blog now e.g. Chloe’s name, endearments for your inlaws etc. Yeah, I know that wud mean u can’t say exactly how you feel but in a way u still can but in a veiled manner. I do agree with comments by ‘minimum’. Maybe do that for just a while until things die down. Some people just like looking for trouble and when they can’t find you online for a while, they will move on and leave u alone. *Hugs*
June 27th, 2005 at 10:10 pm
Auntie Yipan, i noe i can’t do anything..but i able to maek u smile wif my huggies n kisses…!! muacks….hope u can overcome all this streess n ur fussy neighbour…!!
a warm warm hug for u…
June 28th, 2005 at 12:15 am
donno how to help u lah..but I swear I won expose ur blog’s add wan..hehe
I unsubscribed ur link from blogline liao..I oledi memories ur add liao..
btw wat the meaning of yipan? half?
June 28th, 2005 at 10:05 pm
Hey..Gracie,
thanks for hearing me out..
I’m seriously thinking about typepad, i also think they do have this function and easy to use. I might just try it. Paying is not a problem.. wanting to protect myself, my family, my business and my love ones is the most important..
Hey..Min,
I know you are right.. and that having things on the internet is definitely not a private thing anymore but i’m really hoping that no one finds me from here and then use it against me.. and mine like they are doing right now.
Hey.. Milly,
And i will overcome all the stress because i have great friends like you out there..
Thank you for our hugs and kisses..
Hey.. Msau,
I know you won’t my dear.. *hugs*..
Yes.. yipan means half.. i know my translation may be off.. hahaha!!
June 28th, 2005 at 10:06 pm
Hey..DBW,
Yes.. i’ve taken your advice and changed my penned name to siaochaboa.. hahahah!! Yes..you are right.. some ppl just wanna create trouble for others.